16-week Foundation · English with live Chinese translation16周根基课 · 英语授课,配有现场中文口译

Becoming What You Need成为你的需要

A Foundation for Embodying Nonviolent Communication让非暴力沟通活在身体里的根基课

Learned the theory, but find it hard to live it in a real conflict? These 16 weeks take you from understanding to becoming.学了理论,到了真实的冲突里却很难做到?这16周,带你从理解走向成为。Featuring the Spiral Blend —David’s newest refinement of Somatic Consensus for bringing NVC into everyday life.课程核心是螺旋融合——David 对“身心共识”的全新升级,让非暴力沟通融入日常。

Begins Saturday, February 13, 2027 · 8 a.m. Beijing time2027年2月13日(星期六)北京时间上午8点开课16 weeks共16周10 modules10个单元Live online + recordings线上实时授课+全程回放
A participant pausing with a hand on her heart during practiceParticipants practicing embodied connection together in a groupDavid Weinstock resting his head on his arms, smiling, during a session

The Foundation in Somatic Consensus身心共识根基课

You know the language. Can your body find it?这些语言你熟悉,你的身体能找到它们吗?

Somatic Consensus is a somatic approach to Nonviolent Communication. It brings the distinctions of NVC into the living body through nervous-system awareness, movement, relational practice, and the cultivation of choice.身心共识,是让非暴力沟通从头脑落进身体的一条路径。它通过对神经系统的觉察、身体的运动、关系里的练习,和选择能力的培养,将非暴力沟通的关键区分,带入鲜活的身体经验里。

You may understand empathy, needs, observations, and honest expression—yet in the heat of a real moment, attention narrows and old patterns return. This Foundation helps you build a personal practice so presence, relationship, and choice become more available when they matter most.你也许知道:什么是观察、什么是需要、什么是同理、什么是真实表达。可真到了紧张的那一刻,注意力会收窄,旧模式又回来了。
这门根基课,陪你长出一套属于你自己的练习,让临在、连接和选择,在你最需要的那一刻,更容易回到你身上。

“When David spoke about breathing more gratitude into the body, an image filled my whole body—like a tree stretching out its branches and leaves. Then an image appeared at my left hip, as if I had found my roots in China. It was amazing!”“当 David 说在身体里呼吸更多感恩时,我整个身体出现了一个画面,像一棵树在伸展枝叶,然后我左边髋部出现了一个画面,像是在中国找到我的根,太神奇了!”— Iris— 安佩君

The newest refinement of Somatic Consensus身心共识的升级版

The Spiral Blend: a somatic map for embodying Nonviolent Communication.螺旋融合:让非暴力沟通融入身心的地图

The Spiral Blend helps you bring NVC into moments of activation, uncertainty, and conflict.螺旋融合帮助你在被触发、不确定和冲突的时刻,实践非暴力沟通。

Move among its vantage points to return to the body, find resources, listen for what matters, and respond with greater choice.在地图的不同站位之间移动,回到身体,找到资源,倾听核心需要,并带着更多选择去回应。

The Spiral Blend Map — 螺旋融合地图
Sense感知Track breath, sensation, emotion, posture, and impulse.觉察呼吸、身体感觉、情绪、姿势和冲动
Resource汲取资源Return to steadiness, support, and a wider field of attention.回归安稳、支持感与更宽广的注意力
Relate连接Listen beneath words and meet difference with curiosity.倾听言语之下的生命,以好奇心面对差异
Act行动Speak, set boundaries, repair, and choose what comes next.表达、设立界限、修复关系,并选择下一步

In the Foundation,在根基课程中,you use Spiral Blend to build a personal practice for deepening relationships and becoming who you want to become.

Learning to share the map with others is developed in the
你会用螺旋融合,长出一套属于自己的练习,深化关系,也一步步成为你想成为的人。

想把这张地图带给别人,可以接着学习:
Advanced Training进阶培训

16 weeks · Ten modules16周 · 10个单元

A clear arc from inner awareness to compassionate action.一段从内在觉察到慈悲行动的清晰路径

Each module combines concepts, demonstration, guided somatic practice, relational exercises, and time to integrate the learning into daily life.每个单元有概念讲解、示范、引导式身体练习、关系中的练习,也有把所学慢慢融入日常生活的时间。

MODULES 01–03单元01–03

Come home to the body回到身体的家

  • Ground and center yourself in what matters to you.立足于对你重要的需要,安住于中心
  • Work with overwhelm and regain balance, inner guidance, and choice.被压得喘不过气时,重新找回平衡、内在指引与选择
  • Calm your system and listen to the wisdom and resources of your body.让身心安定下来,倾听身体的智慧与资源
MODULES 04–06单元04–06

Meet patterns with choice以选择面对惯性模式

  • Recognize old reactions and turn habitual patterns into resources for connection.识别旧有反应,把它们变成连接的资源
  • Listen deeply to your needs and discover new possibilities.深深倾听自己的需要,发现新的可能
  • Find your ground for empowered words and actions.找到内在立足点,让言语和行动更有力量
  • Receive support from relationships, community, place, and nature.从关系、社群、所在的土地与大自然中获得支持
MODULES 07–10单元07–10

Relate, repair, and act连接、修复与行动

  • Listen with empathy while staying connected to yourself.以同理心倾听,同时与自己保持连接
  • Move between listening openly and speaking your truth with care.在开放倾听与带着关怀表达真实之间流动
  • Work through misunderstandings and find common ground.化解误解,找到共通的根基
  • Create solutions together and take action that honors everyone’s needs.一起创造解决方案,采取尊重每个人需要的行动
Explore all ten modules看看这10个单元里有什么
01Entering the Spiral Blend走进螺旋融合Orientation, centering, S.U.R.F., resourcing, and pendulation.课程导入、回归中心、S.U.R.F.中正修习、汲取资源与摆动练习
02Come Home to the Body回到身体的家Notice breath, sensation, emotion, posture, attention, and impulse.觉察呼吸、身体感觉、情绪、姿势、注意力,还有冲动
03Wind—Self-Regulation“风”——自我调节Create enough space to choose through breath, movement, and widened attention.通过呼吸、动作和拓宽注意力,创造足够的选择空间
04Core Strategies核心策略Meet defending, withdrawing, appeasing, controlling, and freezing with curiosity.以好奇心面对防御、退缩、讨好、控制和僵住的反应
05The Ground You Stand On你立足的“大地”Listen for the need beneath reaction and stand for what matters.倾听反应背后的需要,扎根于对你重要的事
06Resourcing Our Relationships从关系中汲取资源Receive support from people, place, ancestors, community, and nature.从人、所在的土地、先辈、社群与大自然中获得支持
07Empathic Connection同理连接Practice deep listening, timing, humility, and the empathic guess.练习深度倾听、把握时机、保持谦逊,以及同理猜测
08The Empathy–Honesty Pulse在同理与真实表达之间流动Move between receiving and expressing, with boundaries and care.在接收与表达之间流动,同时保持界限与关怀
09Mutual Strategies共同策略Bring inner and outer consensus into relationship and include concerns.把内在和外在的共识带进关系,也把各方的担心放进来
10Compassionate Action慈悲行动Choose, speak, commit, and act with embodied power.带着身心的力量,去选择、去说、去承诺、去行动
The Spiral Blend Companion Workbook by David Weinstock

Included with the program课程包含

Your practice resources.你的练习资源

Our online learning community includes the Spiral Blend workbook, visual maps, recordings, and reflection prompts to support your practice between sessions.在线上学习社群里,你会拿到《螺旋融合练习手册》、《视觉地图》、课程录像和反思小提示,支持你在两次课之间也能持续练习。

The rhythm of learning学习的节奏

Practice over time, accelerated through community.练久了,才长在身体里;有人一起,长得更快。

Embodied learning grows through repetition: learning something, trying it, receiving feedback, and returning again. A cohort accelerates that process. Others help us see what we cannot see alone, and relationship becomes part of the practice itself.要学进身体里,靠的是重复:学一点、试一试、收到反馈,再回来。有一群人跟你一起练,这个过程会快很多。有些部分自己看不到,别人帮助我们看见;你们之间的关系,本身就成了练习的一部分。

Weekly learning每周学习课16 weekly learning sessions led by David Weinstock, with live English-to-Chinese interpretation, concepts, demonstrations, guided somatic practices, and integration.David Weinstock 带领16次每周学习课,配现场中文口译,讲概念、做示范、带领身体的练习,并整合所学。
Weekly practice每周练习课16 weekly practice sessions led by our support trainers and an experienced translator, with partner work, questions, feedback, and support for embodiment.支持培训师(和译员)带领16次每周练习课,做小组练习、问答、反馈,帮你把学过的内容内化进身体里。
Your learning schedule学习时间Learning sessions: February 13 – May 29, 2027, 16 weeks. Saturdays, 8–10 a.m. Beijing time(First session: Friday, February 12, at 4 p.m. Pacific Time; after US daylight saving time begins on March 14, 5 p.m. Pacific.)Practice sessions: weekly, one hour; time to be announced.学习课:2027年2月13日 – 5月29日,共16周。每周六上午8:00–10:00(北京时间)(首堂课对应美国太平洋时间2月12日周五下午4点;3月14日美国夏令时开始后,为周五下午5点。)练习课:每周一次,1小时,时间待定。
Cohort learning同伴共学A consistent group supports connection, diverse perspectives, and continuity for deep learning.你和同一群人走完整个课程,连接会慢慢长出来,视角会变宽,深度学习也会有时间扎根。

Meet twice each week. Recordings, the workbook, and course materials are included.每周相聚两次。课程包含录像、练习手册和学习资料。

David Weinstock and participants in an online learning community
Weekly practice: A one-hour session led by our support trainers and an experienced translator.每周一次练习课:一小时,由支持培训师(和译员)一起带领,陪整个学习小组把练习持续下去。

Who this is for适合谁参加

For people who want presence, not performance.适合想要真实临在,而不是追求表现的人

No trainer identity is required. Beginners and experienced NVC practitioners are welcome. What matters is a willingness to practice, listen, feel, and learn through the body.你不需要是培训师。无论你是初学者,还是已经有非暴力沟通练习经验,都欢迎。真正重要的是:愿意练习、愿意倾听、愿意感受,也愿意通过身体来学习。

Begin with what matters to you and build a practice for daily life.从对你重要的事开始,把练习放进日常生活里
Listen to your body and recognize feelings and needs sooner.倾听身体,更早觉察感受与需要
Find steadiness and regain balance when emotions overwhelm you.情绪汹涌时,安稳自己,重新找回平衡
Recognize habitual reactions and respond with greater choice.认出习惯性反应,回应时多一种选择
Understand your needs and stand for what matters with care.理解自己的需要,带着关怀,扎根于需要
Draw on your strengths and the support of others.用自己的长处,也接受别人的支持
Listen with empathy while staying connected to yourself.以同理心倾听,同时与自己保持连接
Speak honestly, make clear requests, and set boundaries with care.真实表达,提出清晰的请求,也带着关怀设立界限
Find common ground and create solutions that honor everyone’s needs.找到共通根基,创造出照顾到每个人需要的解决办法
Take decisive action aligned with your values—and follow through.做出符合你价值观的决定,并落实下去

Four streams · One living practice“身心共识”体系的四条源流 · 一体的生命实践

Nonviolent Communication非暴力沟通Needs, empathy, honesty, and life-serving action.需要、同理心、真实表达,以及滋养生命的行动
Somatics身心学The body as a source of intelligence, learning, and transformation.身体是智慧、学习与转变的源头
Aikido合气道Centering, blending, timing, and power without domination.回到中心、与对方融合、把握时机,以及无需支配也能有的力量
Consensus & Community共识与社区Hearing every voice while practicing conflict, accountability, and repair.听见每一个声音,也在冲突、担当和关系修复中练习

These four streams come together in David’s Somatic Consensus: NVC practices listening and expression; somatics returns us to the body as the source; Aikido trains centeredness under pressure and power without domination; and consensus and community practice living alongside a group of families over many years—deciding together, collaborating, and repairing.这四条源流汇成 David 的“身心共识”体系:非暴力沟通练习倾听与表达,身心学让人回到身体这个源头,合气道练压力下的中正与不带支配的力量,共识与社区练的是跟一群家庭长期相处、共同决策、合作与修复。

David Weinstock

Study with David Weinstock跟随 David Weinstock 学习

David is the founder of Liminal Somatics and originator of Somatic Consensus and the Spiral Blend. An international NVC trainer, somatic coach, fourth-degree Aikido practitioner, and author of Becoming What You Need , he brings more than four decades of embodied practice to the meeting of conflict, relationship, and compassionate action.David 是 Liminal Somatics(临界身心学)的创始人,也是身心共识与螺旋融合的创立者。他是国际非暴力沟通培训师、身心教练、合气道四段习练者,著有《成为你的需要》。他将四十多年的身体实践,带入冲突、关系与慈悲行动交汇的地方。

“The seeds planted during the training are still sprouting in my body, taking root and helping me navigate life with the deepest respect for all beings.”“课上种下的种子,仍在我的身体里发芽、扎根,让我带着对所有生命最深的尊重过日子。”— Kirsten Elfandahl
“What I experienced very powerfully was David’s presence and embodiment of NVC consciousness… I enjoyed having movement and experiential learning being center-stage.”“我最强烈体验到的是 David 的临在和对 NVC 意识的具身呈现……我很享受以身体动作和体验式学习为核心的教学方式。”— Lucy Leu, NVC trainer and author of The NVC Workbook— 吕靖安,非暴力沟通培训师,《非暴力沟通实践手册》作者

Tuition & enrollment学费与报名

Choose the level that matches your capacity.选择符合你经济能力的档位

Every tuition option leads into the same complete Foundation experience.每个档位都包含同样完整的根基课程体验

We invite you to choose with honesty—caring for your own needs while also considering the resources required to sustain the teaching team, scholarships, and the wider learning community. Those who are able to choose the standard rate (paid in full or in four payments) help make supported places possible for others.我们邀请你诚实选择,照顾自己的需要,同时考虑维持教学团队、奖学金和整个学习社群所需的资源。选择标准价(一次付清或分期支付)的学员,将帮助其他人获得支持名额。

If money is tight经济紧张时

Supported Tuition支持价学费

$1,2501250美元(约8500元人民币)

For participants for whom the standard rate would create genuine financial strain.适用于支付标准学费会造成实际经济压力的学员。

Choose Supported选择支持价
Spread the cost分期分摊

Four Payments分四期支付

$374 × 4374美元/月(约2540元人民币/月)

Spread tuition across four payments while receiving the same full experience.将标准学费分四期支付,享有同样的完整课程体验。

4 Monthly Payments每月付款,共4期

Returning?老学员?

Returning participants receive 50% off.根基课的老学员享受半价优惠

More practice can reveal greater nuance. If you have completed one of David’s Foundations—or an equivalent program—you are invited to return and deepen. When you register, please note which program you completed so we can confirm.如果你已完成 David 的根基课程,或在其他体系完成过类似的根基训练,欢迎回来继续深化。报名时请注明你完成过的课程,以便我们确认。

How to pay怎么付款

Click the button for your tuition option and pay in US dollars by credit card (Visa, Mastercard, American Express or Discover) or PayPal. If you have any trouble paying, please contact Susan (WeChat: GLH_Susan), who will help you.点击对应档位的按钮,用信用卡或 PayPal 支付美元。Visa、Mastercard、American Express、Discover 都可以,常见的双币信用卡就行。付款遇到问题,请联系 Susan(微信:GLH_Susan),她来帮助你。

RMB amounts are estimates at about 6.8 RMB per US dollar; the actual amount depends on your bank’s exchange rate on the day you pay. Some credit cards charge an additional currency conversion fee of about 1–1.5%.按 1 美元约合 6.8 元人民币估算,实际以付款当天银行汇率为准;部分信用卡另收约 1%–1.5% 货币转换费。

Pay it forward传递善意

Support another participant支持另一位学员

If you’re in a position to give, a donation of any size goes directly toward supported places, so someone who couldn’t otherwise join can take part.如果你有能力付出,任何金额的捐款都将直接用于支持名额,让原本无法参加的人也能加入。

Make a Donation我要捐款

Requesting Support申请支持

Choosing with care带着关怀做出选择

If finances are the primary obstacle, please reach out before deciding that the program is not available to you.如果经济是主要障碍,请先联系我们,不必急着认定自己无法参加。

Please send a brief note sharing:请简要来信说明:

  • the program you would like to join你希望参加的课程
  • the tuition amount or monthly payment you can realistically offer你实际能够承担的学费或每月付款金额
  • whether partial scholarship support would make participation possible部分助学金支持是否能帮助你参加

No lengthy application or proof of hardship is required. We will respond personally and look together for an arrangement that respects both your circumstances and the sustainability of the program.无需填写冗长申请或提供经济困难证明。我们会亲自回复,共同寻找既尊重你的处境,也支持课程持续开展的安排。